Thursday, 5 February 2015

Whore

Hullo, my insatiably horny readers.

Shhhhh, it's not late. Just sit back and take it like a good lil thing. My hump day post is fashionably late and going to be a lil bit different this week. I'd like to address a subject that has been part of my Secondlife from almost the beginning. It's a subject, which in society, can be frowned upon. Not only to those who partake but for those who offer the service. Most people have an opinion on the matter and a lot of the time, it's not really a positive one. I'm referring to the delicious and seedy underworld that is escorting.

Escorting in Secondlife is a massive industry. There are countless hang out spots, trailer parks, clubs, strip clubs, brothels, seedy dark alleys dedicated to the lifestyle. Ad boards can be found scattered around all those places of all the hopeful escorts waiting to please you. Services can range from a lap dance, blow job, simple vanilla quickie, fetishes to extreme role plays and things you couldn't possibly try in any other medium. Rates can start from cheap L$1 text whores to high market voice and cam escorts who charge L$3,000 / 15 mins or more.

Having worked in the industry and planning a return in the not too distant future, I thought I would answer some commonly asked questions of a Secondlife Escort.

Q: What type of person becomes an escort?
A: I think there is a common misconception that escorts are people with daddy issues, have low self esteem, people who don't love themselves or value themselves or people with low moral standards. That's a negative and inaccurate view, in my opinion, especially within a virtual reality.

To be an escort you need to be very self confident, strong, passionate, sexually aware, open minded, thoughtful, caring, creative and not oppressed by society-forced ideas of what a sexual encounter should be. Escorts are there to provide you pleasure. An insecure, self-loathing escort will be far too distracted to focus on providing you expert pleasure.

I don't want to weigh in on the moral debate because there are a lot of factors that will change a persons perspective on morals. At the end of the day, if you treat someone with respect, make them feel good or improve their life in any way, shape or form, then you've done a good thing. Bad people don't enjoy doing nice things for people and they won't go out of their way to make someone feel better about themselves.

Q: Why do you like escorting?
A: Personally, I love that there is a field of work that showcases things I enjoy.

I thoroughly enjoy writing and have been writing adult related materials for around eight years. I also have a long history of voice work, having worked as an on-air announcer in radio, recorded a number of commercials for local and international radio. I like to use my writing and my voice to create your ultimate fantasy.

It's thrilling and satisfying to take someone on a sexual journey with words, to have them squirm, cum and beg for more. Having your pleasure in my hands is a powerful thing that I don't take lightly.

Q: Why would I hire an escort when I can get sex for free?
A:  Escorts offer a service, customers pay for services. You pay a barista to make your coffee in a coffee shop. You pay wait staff to bring your food to you in a restaurant. You pay a masseur to give you a massage. You pay an escort to provide you with pleasure that is tailored to your needs.

While there are many people out there who will bend over and take it for free, there is a certain amount of freedom and a guarantee of getting what you want when you hire someone to satisfy your needs.

A lot of people are too shy or worried what reaction will be received at wanting to engage in kinky, extreme or dangerous behavior. If you're hiring someone to satisfy those needs, you don't need to worry about judgement. You can be assured that they aren't going to leave midway because you've looked at them the wrong way or slipped it into the wrong hole. *winks*

You don't need to worry about romantic attachments, stalkers, cuddling and staying around after sex to make someone feel good. It's can be 100% about satisfying your needs. You are allowed to be selfish when you're with an escort and not get into trouble for it.

Q: Why would I want in world porn when I can get real life porn for free on the internet?
A: It's about having interactive porn. You don't just watch porn. You can control porn. You can direct a whore/s to do, say and be what you want.

Depending on the type of escort you hire will change the level of interaction you will receive. You can hire someone who will hop on a pose ball and give you a weak, one sentence attempt at turning you on. Alternatively, you can hire someone who will take you on a journey. Someone who will provide delicious details that will keep you from guessing and keep your hand in your pants.

A good escort should be able to respond to your well written emotes or provide a detailed encounter, solo,  that will give you every opportunity to get off in just the way you want.

Q: What are the benefits of hiring a Secondlife escort?
A: The first reason, in my opinion, is the freedom of activity. It is almost limitless the sexual acts you can engage in, providing you stay within the Secondlife terms of service. You can have any number of people and enjoy them in a variety of locations, including public play.

You don't need to worry about; STI's, pregnancy, unwanted romantic involvement, body limitations like flexibility, physically harming someone, local laws or strangely large sex organs that wouldn't fit in any real life hole.

Escorts spend a lot of time and effort to make themselves look desirable. You have the opportunity to pick gorgeous, perfect and creative people to pleasure you, all for the price of a drink at a bar.

Lastly, you can do it from the safety of your home.

Q: How do I hire an escort?
A: Firstly, do your homework. Check ad boards, profiles, social media, blogs and Flickr pages. You want to know that the person you're hiring looks good, sounds good and can offer you what you're looking for.  If you're paying for a service, you should expect the best.

The next part is simple. Once you've chosen an escort or two that you'd like to contact, don't be afraid to make contact and directly ask for what you want. The following would be the ideal interaction for any escort:

He says: Hi there. I've seen that you are an escort and I'm interested in your services.
She says: Hi sugar, what are you looking for?
He says: I'd love it if we could do [insert sexual act here]
She says: Sure! That service will cost L$ [insert fee here]
He says: No problem
She says: Your place or mine?
Teleports and gets down to it

It's not easy hiring an escort but it doesn't need to be a shameful event. You know what you want and there is someone out there willing to provide you with what you need.

Q:What is the etiquette for paying an escort?
A: While it might seem odd to pay for a service before the event, this is for the safety of the Escort. It would be very easy to leave, without paying, after you've received what you want from your escort. A lot of clients will leave abruptly for what one can only imagine is clean up.

To save the awkwardness of your escort asking for the money, pay the fee once you have teleported to your encounter location. Sometimes an encounter can run longer than expected. If this happens, either pay for another time block (ie. 15, 30, 45 mins) or offer an appropriate tip for short finishes.

A lot of escorts have wish lists and appreciate gifts. This should never be offered as payment but a bonus for a job well done.

If you are worried that you won't get what you paid for, some escort places, like Escort Oasis, offer a safe payment system that protects both the escort and the client.

Also, you will not be entitled to a refund if you leave prior to the scheduled time. If you cum early, it's only proof that your escort deserves the money they have been paid.

Q: What places do you recommend for finding an escort?
A: These are a couple of places I will frequent while looking for clients. All these places are open to freelance escorts.

Escort Oasis, Trashy Whore Trailer Park, Fuck Hall, XXX Slut Alley, Slutland Escort Club.

All these answers are my personal opinions on escorting. I know not everyone will agree with the way I see it and that's perfectly okay. I believe in freedom not only with speech but to be who I am. I won't apologize for being sexually awear and secure with that.

I don't believe in sexuality. I believe in pleasure and happiness from any delicious person, male, female or transgender. If i can provide that or receive that then surely that will make the world a better place.

I hope you've found this article to be informative and interesting. Also, enjoy the image that was inspired by the In This Moment - Whore, music video.  =)

Emma
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*Please note: ALL information about escorting in this article is for the online world, Secondlife ONLY.

1 comment:

  1. Well written and informing....let me know when you make the plunge! :P

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